Not honoring our word to ourselves erodes our relationship with ourselves and costs us time, money, and success.

Not honoring our word to ourselves erodes our relationship with ourselves and costs us time, money, and success. Sometimes we may think no one will know, but WE will know.

We always know when we said we would do something for ourselves, AND we know when we are not holding up our end of the deal.

This also shows up when we build a business, lose weight, build a retirement, etc., because how we do one thing is how we do everything.

I noticed my clients who struggle to create our dreams had one thing in common: not keeping our word to ourselves.

We say we will do XYZ on Monday, and come Monday, and we don’t do what we said we would.

However, if we told Susie Q we would do XYZ on Monday for her, we would be there no matter what.

This pattern communicates that we are not as important as Susie Q, that our relationship with ourselves does not matter as much as the relationship with Susie, and that our respect and trust in ourselves do not matter as much.

These tiny little cuts into our relationship with ourselves significantly impact our self-trust, self-respect, and self-love.

The interesting thing is when we start honoring our word to ourselves and know beyond a reason of doubt, we will keep our word to ourselves, we still keep our words to others, but because we love ourselves too much and would not agree to meet or do anything for Susie Q that we are not in alignment with.

The stronger our self-trust, the more people can trust us.

The additional bonus is my clients start creating more of the dreams they want, including stronger relationships with themselves and others.

If you are ready to learn how to honor your word to yourself while creating the life and business of your dreams without working harder or longer, I can help you.

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A pattern I see that costs my clients and me time, money and success is doing things for others they can do for themselves.

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