Three Ways to Discover Strengths You Didn’t Know You Had
Do you ever feel like you’re working too hard but still not reaching your goals? It might be that the strengths you already have aren’t being noticed or used effectively. Sometimes, we’re so busy looking for the next big idea that we miss the gifts right in front of us.
1. Recall a Recent Win
Why It Matters:
Looking back on a positive result can show you the skills you’re already good at. Maybe you gave a great presentation or solved a tough problem. Ask yourself what made that moment possible, and you might uncover a key strength you didn’t realize was special.
Try This:
Write down what you did well during that win.
Think of at least one way you can use that same skill in another project or area of your life.
2. Ask a Friend or Colleague
Why It Matters:
Sometimes our closest strengths feel so natural that we barely notice them. Asking a trusted person for their honest view can reveal qualities or talents you overlook.
Try This:
Ask someone to name one thing they think you do exceptionally well.
See if their insight points you toward a skill you haven’t fully recognized.
3. Notice What Feels Effortless
Why It Matters:
If something comes naturally to you, it might be a hidden edge. This could be organizing details, connecting with people, or spotting solutions quickly.
Try This:
Spend a week tracking tasks that feel easy and see which ones lead to results.
Consider how you might put more time into that activity or skill.
Poll or Question Prompt
Once you spot a hidden strength, which of these challenges usually stops you from using it more often?
Feeling stuck about where to apply it
Struggling to balance life and work
Doubting whether it’s “good enough”
Trying to manage too much mental clutter
Choosing one can help you see the path forward more clearly.
Conclusion
Discovering new strengths doesn’t always require big changes. Small shifts in how you notice and use your abilities can bring more ease to your day. Take a little time this week to reflect, ask someone you trust for input, or pay attention to what you handle effortlessly. You might be surprised at how much potential is waiting for you to use it.
Enjoy exploring your strengths!