Effective personal development is like a clean and organized closet
I am always working on finding ways to create the life of my dreams and helping as many women create the results they have been struggling to create.
One of the biggest mistakes I did for years and I see most people do is we collect a ton of new concepts and ideas; Read a ton of books; Attend a ton of webinars and trainings and still get the same results they we have always gotten.
Or struggle to create new results with tons of banged up knees to show for it.
I teach my clients that personal development is like cleaning up a closet.
The old way is just buying new clothes and shoes and shoving them into the closet.
This way leaves you with a mess and you do not really know what you have.
I teach my clients to first, take everything out of the closet.
The purpose is to see what clothes you have, do they serve you, are they working for you, do you like them, how do you feel in them.
I teach my clients to separate the clothes into 3 piles, those that they will keep, get rid of and those maybe they can pack away for another season.
What goes back in the closest are the clothes we like, and we want to keep.
The ones that make us feel and look great.
The clothes that no longer serve us, get to go.
Yes, at one point in time the size 16 suit looked and felt great, but not a size 8 body (yes, I lost almost 50 pounds).
Now you can go get new clothes because you know what you need.
The clothes are like thoughts, you may learn that you are at a different place in your life and business and specific book or course is what you need.
This speeds up the time you get to solve your problem and has you actually solving for the right problem, which saves you time and money and gets you to your goal a lot faster.
You feel better in the process and get to enjoy the process because you create the life and business you want.